HELLO AND WELCOME!
I’m here to help you understand this topic, give suggestions, advice, or provide an unbiased listening ear about your situation as a scapegoat, otherwise known as a ‘black sheep’.
I’M A SURVIVOR OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, of almost 50 years, and you too can find happiness!
DEFINE:
In a dysfunctional family, there is at least one narcissistic parent, a scapegoat, and a golden child who can never do wrong. If there are other siblings, they are manipulated to take the side of their toxic parent to escape being abused, too. Before you know it, the scapegoat is all alone, since if there is a 2nd parent, they have already lost their backbone to protect.
QUESTIONS FOR YOU:
Are you punished for telling the truth?
Are you held to a different standard?
Do you get blamed for your family’s dysfunction or toxicity?
Do you receive little or no praise from your family?
Do you have a difficult relationship with your siblings?
Does your family try to ruin your reputation?
Also, you may be an empath who can feel others’ emotions, sense when someone is lying, and have the ability to read the room. This is something that you may have developed over the years and is known as a trauma response or a defense mechanism used for safety.
MY EXPERIENCE:
I grew up with a narcissistic mother, so it’s very common to attract narcissistic relationships, such as significant others, best friends, cousins, co-workers, managers, and business partners, as I did. It wasn’t easy, but I overcame each relationship and found ways to protect myself going forward. Also, my previous career was as a front-line social worker, and most of my clients were narcissists who were very skilled at manipulating the system that included me. I found ways to work with them on their level to help them to achieve their goals.
MY SERVICES:
I offer phone services with the option of providing a face-to-face session via Messenger.
NEW CLIENTS RECEIVE A COMPLIMENTARY 15-MINUTE SESSION.
The rate is $50 for 30 minutes.
I accept Venmo or PayPal.
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MY BOOK:
I struggled with this trauma for many years, but found alternative ways of healing once the traditional mental health services weren’t enough. My book is intertwined with personal stories, facts, several spiritual tools, many charts, and personal tests to track your trauma recovery. Click below to purchase my book on Amazon.
